split personality or...........

my dad's pet stmt, yell, regret, call it wat u may is " show me ur friends il tell you wat u are!!! "
this is the first thing i get to hear when he's completely mad at me...

reason being, he thinks his sweet lil, darling daughter[ dats me :)] was never this rude or nasty or disobedient or rebellious etc etc...but has become so over the years thanx to the "not so good" friends o mine...

i have always rubbished the stmt and to a large extent continue to do so.
to think that my friends would have a bad influence on me [read indulgin in the so cald vices] is plain stupidity...

i would instead want to believe that a certain friend ,dependin on how close they are to u ,brings out a certain set o behavioural patterns...

par exemple, im very caring and protective bout my closest friends...dont mind them takin liberty with me n vice versa....with them im usually happy, cheerful, helpful, annoyed at times and completely myself...

then there is another kind who tend to bring out the "dirtiest" traits ever....those of being possessive, suspicious, mean, vengeful, nasty, rude.....the kind who'd leave u in an agitated state o affairs,a state of helplessness...
could be someone u hate but cant do away with, someone u love the most and again, cant really move on,or someone's who's plain been mean and ungrateful life long...

watever it is methinks ne human being and bring in the positive and negative traits in u...and these negative traits are worser than even the actual tangible vices dat one may indulge in...

this is y i somewhere agree and largely disagree to wat my dad thinks :)