12 September 2012

hyderaBAD!!

In Hyderabad after a gap of two years and lo behold! - it has changed quite a bit for the worse!
Back in the day when I used to live here( a born and brought up in Hyderabad girl)and had my friends and relatives visiting from the U.S of A, I'd always find their statements, observations, opinions, call it what you may- about the way hyderabad's changed a little to "firangi" . I mean how much can a place change in such short a span?!?!
Now that I myself have been away for 2 years now, I can see for myself how it has changed... No- the roads, old familiar hangout zones, the buildings, the overall infrastructure seems to remain the same...
 What has changed is the sudden sea of humanity- just when did so many peopl decide to make this city their home!? We Hyderabadi's  are known for our complete lack of common sense and traffic sense- breaking and or bending rules is our birthright ! What I failed to account for is our sense of perfection- that we can be so perfectly lawless and senseless is something I witness now...
Earlier Hyderabad had some distinction of being a clean and green city- now it may as well be called the dirty, dusty, dry and super sad city... I am truly pained at seeing Hyderabad, and India as a whole in such a pathetic state. 
Two years ago there was some semblance of law, order, enforcement and discipline- now we lazy hyderabadi's just decided to do away with it totally- car seat belts no longer seem important, neither does helmets. We never had lane discipline but now we do not even have a 'side' discipline as it were- the manner in which I had to witness oncoming vehicles on my side of the road compelled me to stop and wonder if a two way road was made one way!!!
The city seems to be in an utter state of neglect- what with the powers that be, preoccupied with other apparently important and obviously unimportant  matters; with the ruling government, the opposition and other wanna be parties engaging in mudslinging, destruction and money squandering activities , with students and politicians allowed to indulge in vandalism, with the absolute abuse of power becoming a routine- can Hyderabad be anything but BAD...
Whoever named the city sure foresaw the state of affairs the city would land into!!

14 August 2012

the MOM-ME :)

Even before I realise, another 6 months have gone by...
obviously my new role as a mother leaves me with very little time to do my basic chores, blogging is a distant luxury!
Its amazing what all God can do... the whole process of giving birth; of bringing a whole new individual into this world is, in one word- magical!
the changes a pregnant lady has to undergo practically every moment- physical, mental and emotional is mind boggling!
from being excited, to being super tired to being down in the dumps and suddenly all energetic - its a journey of all possible emotions life has to offer in just those 9 months!!!
from my earlobe to my little toe, there was nothing that did not change for that little bundle of joy growing within me.
and now that my little boy is already 8 months old it seems like just the other day i was pregnant- experiencing all the changes that came my way.
the whole process of becoming a mom was fantastic, and now the 8 months of being a mom was challenging and fun...
a life long journey ensues and I'm only waiting for all the excitement and endless happiness coming my way :))
to all the mothers there- enjoy the journey and thank you for being there!
ciao!

6 January 2012

a whole year gone by...

phew! realised my last post was in feb 2011!!! almost a year since i even looked at my blog!
so what kept me so preoccupied ??? well i gave my bar exam- which i did not clear by a whisker of a margin... then a trip to sfo with cousins...
and then embarked on a whole new journey- 9 months of preparing,nurturing and experiencing my baby to be... 9 months of being pregnant just went by, managed somehow- just me and my husband and our kid to be....
include in those 9 months a trip to montreal>> toronto>> niagara falls> michigan- for a wedding in the family; another trip to sfo- again with cousins and friends this time; my driving license exam and yoga classes- prenatal and belly dancing included.... has been one helluva ride- fun, tiring, challenging...
towards the end of my pregnancy, my mom's arrival- some shopping with her and last minute fooling around as it were as a wife and daughter...
early december- stepped into my new role as mother :) a mom to a cute little boy:)
managing to sneak in this post while my bundle of joy is contently asleep :)
more to come....
ciao!